Getting your groomsmen coordinated and looking sharp is one of the most important details of wedding planning. At D’Luxe Tux in Cedar Rapids, we specialize in helping wedding parties achieve a polished, cohesive look. Here’s everything you need to know about coordinating your groomsmen.

Matching vs. Coordinating: What’s the Difference?

Full Match

Everyone wears identical tuxedos or suits – same color, style, and accessories. This creates a uniform, elegant look that photographs beautifully. It’s the most traditional approach and works especially well for formal weddings.

Coordinated Look

Groomsmen wear complementary but not identical outfits. For example, the groom might wear a navy tuxedo while groomsmen wear charcoal suits, or everyone wears the same suit but with different tie colors. This adds visual interest while maintaining cohesion.

The Groom Stands Out

Many couples choose to distinguish the groom with a different jacket color, unique accessories, or a slightly more formal look than the groomsmen. This makes it immediately clear who the groom is in photos.

Popular Coordination Styles for 2025

Classic Black Tuxedos

Timeless elegance that works for any venue. Everyone wears matching black tuxedos with black bow ties – the groom might add a white dinner jacket or unique boutonniere.

Navy Blue Family

The groom wears navy blue while groomsmen wear lighter blue or steel gray. This gradient effect creates visual depth in photos.

Mixed Neutrals

Combining charcoal, gray, and black creates a sophisticated, modern look. Each groomsman can wear a slightly different shade while maintaining overall harmony.

Color Pops

Everyone wears matching suits with accessories that match the wedding colors. This is popular for semi-formal and outdoor Iowa weddings.

The Timeline for Groomsmen Coordination

Planning ahead is crucial when coordinating multiple people. Here’s our recommended timeline:

6+ Months Before

• Decide on the overall look and color scheme
• Choose your tuxedo or suit style
• Communicate the plan to your groomsmen

4-6 Months Before

• Have all groomsmen come to D’Luxe Tux for measurements
• For out-of-town groomsmen, we can coordinate with locations near them or provide measurement instructions
• Confirm all reservations

2-4 Weeks Before

• Final fittings for local groomsmen
• Ship rentals to out-of-town groomsmen if needed
• Confirm all accessories are included

1 Week Before

• All groomsmen pick up their rentals
• Try everything on one final time
• Address any last-minute adjustments

Managing Out-of-Town Groomsmen

Having groomsmen scattered across the country is common. Here’s how we handle it at D’Luxe Tux:

Generation Tux Partnership

Through our partnership with Generation Tux, out-of-town groomsmen can get measured at partner locations nationwide. We coordinate everything from our Cedar Rapids location to ensure everyone matches perfectly.

Self-Measurement Option

We provide detailed measurement instructions and video guides for groomsmen who can’t visit a fitting location. Our team reviews all measurements to ensure accuracy.

Ship Direct

Rentals can be shipped directly to out-of-town groomsmen and returned via prepaid shipping after the wedding.

Accessory Coordination Tips

Ties and Bow Ties

Decide whether everyone wears matching ties or if you want variety. Many couples have all groomsmen match each other while the groom wears something distinct.

Vests and Cummerbunds

These accessories offer an opportunity to incorporate wedding colors. All groomsmen might wear matching vests in a color that complements the bridesmaids’ dresses.

Pocket Squares

A coordinated pocket square adds polish. Consider having them match the ties or provide a subtle color contrast.

Boutonnieres

Work with your florist to create boutonnieres that complement the overall look. The groom’s boutonniere is typically larger or more elaborate.

Shoes and Socks

Don’t forget the details! All groomsmen should wear the same color and style of shoes. Fun socks can add personality while maintaining a polished appearance.

Common Coordination Mistakes to Avoid

Waiting Too Long

Starting late means limited selection and stressed groomsmen. Begin the process early!

Assuming Sizes

Never let groomsmen guess their sizes. Professional measurements ensure everyone fits properly.

Forgetting Details

Make sure everyone knows what accessories they need, including shoes, belts, and cufflinks.

Ignoring Body Type Differences

Choose styles that flatter everyone. Our team can help select cuts that work for various body types while maintaining a cohesive look.

Poor Communication

Create a group text or email chain to keep all groomsmen informed of deadlines and expectations.

What to Tell Your Groomsmen

Make sure each groomsman knows:

• The specific style and color you’ve chosen
• Where and when to get measured
• The deadline for reservations
• What accessories are included vs. what they need to provide
• Pick-up and return instructions
• Any costs they’re responsible for

Group Discounts at D’Luxe Tux

We offer special pricing for wedding parties. The more groomsmen in your party, the more you save. Ask about our group discount when you visit our Cedar Rapids showroom.

Ready to Coordinate Your Wedding Party?

Visit D’Luxe Tux in Cedar Rapids to start planning your groomsmen’s looks. Our experienced team has coordinated countless wedding parties throughout Eastern Iowa, and we’ll make sure everyone looks their best on your special day.

Contact us today to schedule a group fitting!